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However, these two different approaches to intentions and actions can lead to a lot of confusion. For example, about two weeks ago, my mentor, Sanna, mentioned that she and her kids sometimes bake pulla (say it: PULL-a; sweet rolls). I should say at this point that I am a terrible baker and think it is amazing that Sanna bakes so well. I said that baking pulla sounded like a lot of fun, and I would love to learn how to make them myself some day. A week later, Sanna sent me a message asking whether I was free to come over to bake pulla that evening. When I said I wanted to learn to make pulla, I was thinking about a possible future activity, maybe in a few months.