Combine this with the fact that this city is filled to the brim with people, these often tiny women have evolved to make room for themselves.
I was told eating is a huge part of life in South Korea, and after living here I would definitely agree. In a culture where everyone is working hard, whether in the classroom or in an office, food with your friends is considered the best way to end the day. It is considered rude to refuse food or drink when it is offered to you, even if you think the food in question is strange. For example, one time I had a very strange cole slaw dish that was topped with a weird green sauce and frosted flakes, and I just had to accept it and say thank you. But I'm glad I did, because I actually enjoyed it! In Korea, tipping is also considered rude. This was probably one of the easiest cultural adjustments for me, as it means you do not have to spend time after each meal calculating how much to tip your waiter. Expectations of service are also very different, and eating anywhere, you will find that you never have to wait very long to receive your food.
At the end of the day, the greatest perspective I have gained from being here is the genuine kindness of strangers. I never imagined I would meet so many nice people. I have heard of friends losing their wallets or phones, and having them returned because stealing really is not common here.
Living in Korea has made me really step back and realize my place in this crazy, big world. In a city where everything is constantly changing, I truly have to be aware of my surroundings. I understand now, more than ever, that everything happens for a reason. Overall, I'm really learning to embrace life and all the crazy things that come along with it!
