I didn’t figure out what I wanted to be in the future until the summer before I entered college. Most people kept asking me, but I just didn’t know what I wanted for my future. My sister had a set course that she decided on at only seven years old. Oddly enough, halfway through college, she decided that wasn’t the right path for her. Everyone has a different clock for discovering their passions. Never let anyone force you to choose or choose for you. There is a path out there for every person and it just takes a bit (or a whole lot) of courage to try and find it.
Part of this study abroad experience has taught me what it actually means to be a global citizen, a person of the whole world and not just my own town or country. Being a global citizen isn’t just learning about other cultures and places but knowing how to respect them and learn from them. There are many Japanese habits that I have picked up, including bowing, taking my shoes off at the door and being involved in the bigger community. Many of these will follow me back to the United States and I plan to incorporate many of these new habits and lessons into my daily life.
If you can, I hope you can get involved with the people around you, such as students from different neighborhoods, countries or traditions. Everyone has a story that has shaped their lives. You have one, also. Add to your story, take challenges, find yourself and honor your beliefs. Sometimes learning about other people can help you learn more about yourself. It certainly has for me. I am still struggling to find all the parts to who I am, even at 21 years old. Don’t be afraid to take your time.
